Sarah Pole LCSW - Wedding Celebrant in Spain

Your wedding in Spain

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! The south of Spain is a beautiful place to hold your wedding and the Costa Tropical area has an amazing selection of locations, resources and people to help make it the perfect event.

The role of your wedding celebrant is to help you decide what type of ceremony you want, to help discover what you want to say and to ensure everything goes smoothly on the big day.

For me personally, an important part of the role is to believe in love, and to recognize the strength it takes to make this commitment.  Ultimately your wedding is the start of your life together, and your ceremony is where you start the process of visioning your life together, so it should be personal for each couple.  Ideally planning it will bring you closer together and be a foundation block that you can draw support from for years to come.

Getting to know you

I like to take time getting to know you as a couple, what your sense of humour is, and what parts of your love story you want to celebrate.  I also like to explore where you are strong as a couple and what your vision is for the future one or two Skype calls and a questionnaire.

After we have got to know each other, I will design your ceremony based on your feedback. Many ceremonies I write are funny and romantic, though there is also scope for wry, silly or completely serious ceremonies. It very much depends on you and what you want to say.

I always strive to make the process relaxed and fun – easier since I really  enjoy this work!

With everything else going on, I trust you completely to marry us, and that’s such a good feeling – the most important part of the day.

I have had a lot of practice performing ceremonies and can improvise quickly to keep everything on track, even when unexpected interruptions may occur. I also enjoy speaking with guests afterwards who often tell me that the ceremony really reflected their friends, or made them cry or that it reminded them why they got married.

Ultimately, my goal is for you to have an amazing wedding day.  Although every ceremony is different, each one is about celebrating love, telling a personal love story and communicating it well to family and friends.  If I achieve this, my work is done!

Please feel free to contact me here.

Please read testimonials of my work here.

My fee is 500€ and I’m happy to talk or Skype to discuss your needs before booking.

Laughter is holier than piety, freedom is sweeter than fame, and in the end it’s love and love alone that really matters. 

Tom Robbins